Why are ‘we’ so obsessed by it? It’s almost as if guys are ejaculating vicariously through women. The desire to have a female ‘visibly come’ has overtaken the process of love making, making your partner feel amazing, and doing stuff she appreciates, special. Again, ‘we’ have made this about the guys. It’s another achievement at the expense of our partners. A cum notch on the bedpost, if you will.
Why would it make sense? The purpose of male ejaculation is to ‘throw those bad boys up there’. The same is not true for women. Guys see it as a trophy. A vaginal notch in the squirt frame. It’s more about a guys ‘yeaaaaah I did that’ ego stroke than actually about female enjoyment
It’s the opinion of many female friends. Guys finger banging like they’re stuffing a Build-a-Bear with that outcome their only mission. You can decide if you feel that is ininformed (sic) nonsense
If that is a thing, it is the ego of the guy. I guess some score keepers are into that. I only mentioned it in context. It was just love making, not a contest.
So it's possible you have a valid point. Just don't project that ininformed nonsense on me. Thanks
As a highly-sexual, late 40's woman who only recently squirted for the first time during orgasm, I found this so informative and insightful! Thank you x
I have personally brought several ladies to their first explosive Big O.
It's a technique, and I've never failed except with one lady, and ironically she was the best lover imaginable, the best in my life.
It just takes patience and knowing where and when to apply little pressures or strokes.
Why are ‘we’ so obsessed by it? It’s almost as if guys are ejaculating vicariously through women. The desire to have a female ‘visibly come’ has overtaken the process of love making, making your partner feel amazing, and doing stuff she appreciates, special. Again, ‘we’ have made this about the guys. It’s another achievement at the expense of our partners. A cum notch on the bedpost, if you will.
Very interesting observation. It would make sense for women to ejaculate. It will be interesting to discover its biological purpose.
Why would it make sense? The purpose of male ejaculation is to ‘throw those bad boys up there’. The same is not true for women. Guys see it as a trophy. A vaginal notch in the squirt frame. It’s more about a guys ‘yeaaaaah I did that’ ego stroke than actually about female enjoyment
It’s the opinion of many female friends. Guys finger banging like they’re stuffing a Build-a-Bear with that outcome their only mission. You can decide if you feel that is ininformed (sic) nonsense
If that is a thing, it is the ego of the guy. I guess some score keepers are into that. I only mentioned it in context. It was just love making, not a contest.
So it's possible you have a valid point. Just don't project that ininformed nonsense on me. Thanks
As a highly-sexual, late 40's woman who only recently squirted for the first time during orgasm, I found this so informative and insightful! Thank you x
"...the fluid neither looks nor smells like urine."
Doesn't taste like it either, in my experience.
I enjoy when a woman climaxes. I have had women that when we get up in the morning the sheets are wet. Not only did I enjoy it she did as well.
Not only do I enjoy to be satisfied I enjoy making my partner satisfied. Most times she’s keeps coming back!
Thanks for all your hardwork, talents and sleeks!
This was an informative article. Thanks for sharing.