The skills required for BDSM include trust, clear communication, self-acceptance, and acceptance of the other person. Those same skills enhance relationships and sex—no matter how you play.
I was just on a call about kink yesterday in a new certification I'm taking. The trainers suggested that green, yellow and red are good safe words to help facilitate good communication. Plus, if you're at a play party, everyone in the vicinity will understand red.
What a clear, sensitive and beautiful explanation of BDSM. Thank you so much!
I was just on a call about kink yesterday in a new certification I'm taking. The trainers suggested that green, yellow and red are good safe words to help facilitate good communication. Plus, if you're at a play party, everyone in the vicinity will understand red.