Which Vibrator Is Best?
That depends on you, your location, and the kind(s) of stimulation you enjoy.
Sex toy marketers offer dozens of vibrators. Which one is best? That depends on you, your location, and the kind(s) of stimulation you enjoy.
Types of Vibrators
All vibrators vibrate. They contain motors that produce pleasurable sensations in the genitals and around the body. Beyond that, however, vibrators vary tremendously. They come in different shapes, sizes, colors, materials, and power sources:
• Some vibrators are realistic-looking erect penises. Others are larger-than-life penises or more abstract cylinders or sculpted appliances that may or may not resemble penises.
• Ball-top vibrators are wands capped by a vibrating ball, typically the size of a plum. The world’s most popular vibrator is a ball-top, the Hitachi Magic Wand.
• Bullets are mini-vibrators. Bullets are typically too small to house the motor and battery. These elements reside in a separate unit connected by wire to the vibe. Small and compact, bullets are a good choice for travel.
• Double-shaft vibrators. have a small extra protrusion extending from the middle of the shaft for clitoral stimulation while the main shaft is inside the vagina.
• G-spot stimulators have curved tips that enable women to reach their G-spots, something difficult to accomplish with one’s own fingers. The G-spot is located an inch or two inside the vagina on the front wall— the top if she’s on her back. About the size of a quarter, the G-spot is an area of erectile tissue similar to the tissue inside the penis. During sexual arousal, G-spot tissue swells and protrudes a bit from the vaginal wall. When rubbed or pressed, many women find G-spot stimulation highly erotic.
• Tongues resemble phallic vibrators, but the top flattens out to a tongue shape. Turn it on, and the tongue wags back and forth for a reasonable approximation of cunnilingus.
• Butterflies are pancake-shaped. They are not inserted, but rather pressed into the vulva. They often include straps that wrap around the thighs to hold them in place.
Vibrator Details
Vibrator materials include hard or soft plastic, jelly (like gummy-bear candies), or plastic materials that feel similar to human skin.
Vibrators use one of three power sources: standard batteries, rechargeable batteries, or wall current. Each has advantages and disadvantages. Battery-powered vibrators generally weigh less than plug-in vibes. They are also more versatile. They can be used where wall current is unavailable: in cars, boats, theaters, outdoors—use your imagination. But the batteries must be changed or recharged periodically, and may lose power when you want it most. Wall current vibrators generally have more powerful motors so they deliver more intense sensations. But they weigh more, which may be a problem for some users. Models powered by rechargeable batteries are generally more powerful than disposable-battery models, but less powerful than plug-ins.
Some vibrators have only one speed. Others are multi-speed. Smaller more portable vibrators tend to have just one speed.
Most vibrators are not waterproof. Because of the danger of electric shock and short-circuiting, they should not be used around water. However, some vibes are waterproof. Their electrical components are sealed within the housing for great fun in tubs or showers.
Vibrator “kits” include a basic cylindrical vibe and attachments that alter its look and the sensations it provides.
While most vibrators are used by women solo, surveys show that about 10 percent of American couples now use vibrators in partner sex. Lovers can take turns using vibrators on each other for whole-body massage. For genital play, many women insist on handling the vibrator themselves—the clitoris is often very sensitive to touch, especially the intense sensations vibrators provide. The same goes for the penis, scrotum, and anus. But while women—or men—press the vibe where it provides them with the pleasure they want, they often enjoy being held and caressed by their lovers.
Which Vibrator To Use?
There is no “best” vibrator for everyone. Personal preferences differ, which is why sex toy marketers offer large selections. But factors to consider include: shape, size, material, insertability, your fantasies, the power supply, and whether or not you want it waterproof. Start with a model you find aesthetically pleasing that meets your needs for size, shape, power supply, etc. From there, consider adding others to your collection.
Surveys show that most vibrator users own one or two, but many women and couples own several.
Compared with other forms of entertainment, vibrators are quite economical. For about the cost of a large pizza, a vibrator can provides hours—or weeks, even years—of erotic pleasure.
I wish you sizzling sex.
Questions & Answers
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I’m a 42-year-old woman, and I’ve always had difficulty having orgasms. I can come, but only with a vibrator, and they are weak orgasms nothing earth shaking. I’d like to experience some truly mind-blowing orgasms. I feel like I’m missing out. Any suggestions? Thanks. Read my response…
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My husband and I like to play with vibrators and dildos during sex. Now we’re talking about using a rather large vibrator that will stretch my vagina. But I’m concerned. Is the stretching is permanent? Or, will my vagina go back to its normal size? Read my response…
I’ve heard that vibrators, if you use them a long time, can make my clitoris less sensitive. Any truth to this? Read my response…